Advice for my younger self

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There are so many things I would like to tell my younger self but I don’t want to make it so that anything will change.

I love my life the way it is and I am a believer of things happening because that’s the way they should be happening, there’s a reason for the bad things and the good things and the people you meet, the “wrong” decisions you make, etc. Everything that has happened to me has happened for a reason, at least I hope so! And those things are finally coming to fruition.

So I could tell my younger self to just relax, things turn out great, your life is awesome. However if I do that I might make it so I don’t make any decisions at all and that would change the course of my life. Although I suppose if I do ever get the chance to tell my younger self something that would be part of my “destiny” so therefore nothing would change anyway… I think.

I may have thought about this one a little bit too much.

Obviously I know that I’m not actually sending messages to my younger self but I’m just weighing up the possibilities.


I think there are hundreds of things I would tell  my younger self.

Here’s a few;

Live your life for yourself.

Do not let other people make decisions for you.

We each have our own experiences of things and they will never be the same as someone else’s.

Don’t worry about what people think of you.

Love your body!

Travel more.

Just do it! (I know I may have stolen that from Nike but it’s a good one).


Say yes! (With caution obviously…)

Take every opportunity that comes your way, even the tedious ones.

Hug people.

Listen to things.

I think I’ll leave it there. I could go on forever.

There are many times I have thought back and wondered what I would have done if I hadn’t been so self conscious or I’d had more confidence. It’s irrelevant though, I would be a different person and my life wouldn’t be as it is. Things are the way they are because that’s the way they should be and that’s fine with me because my life is awesome. My friends, family and my incredibly gorgeous boyfriend are all amazing 🙂

Don’t ever let anyone make you think you’re not good enough. 

Follow your dreams right now! Don’t wait until tomorrow, 

next week, next year. Stop planning, start doing 🙂


Be happy and keep smiling 😀


Published by Kate

I write, therefore I am. I spend my days writing, wondering what to write, being creative and generally being awesome 😊 Welcome to my world, won't you come on in? xx

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